Saturday, January 15, 2011

Baby Girl



Our baby girl, better known as Cienna Elise, turned 4 years old today and boy was it crazy (fun.) Let me start by saying that I tried many, many times today to transport myself back 4 years to remember what it was like to become a mom for the 1st time. While my heart was bursting with emotion, the one thing that I kept remembering was the fact that 4 years ago I was laying in a hospital bed, having someone wait on me hand and foot and each and every time I wanted to go to sleep I simply pressed my "magic" button better known as liquid pain killers. It was heaven. They would bring Cienna in and we would nuzzle and I would inspect her and take in every bit of this new little person with the most gorgeous lips and then I would take a nap. The best. My life is a little different today. But it is great all the same. Just a little less inspecting and almost no resting!
The birthday celebration really started last night when we let Cienna pick ANY restaurant in Albuquerque that she wanted to go to. Her 1st choice was Mariscos Altamar, our favorite Mexican restaurant. But then doubt set in...She insisted that she must pick a restaurant that they would sing "Happy Birthday" to her. So after careful, careful consideration she stuck with her 1st choice, but only after we told her if they didn't sing to her we would take her out for ice cream too. Not only did she get sung "Happy Birthday" to, but some other VERY LONG song in Spanish. It was practically uncomfortable. The guy with the guitar was at our table for like 5 minutes straight. Cienna loved it (especially the sombrero) and so did AJ. But mom and dad were over it!


Then came the real birthday celebration. Cienna and 13 of her closest tiny friends saw magic tricks, received balloon art and got their faces painted by Huggs the Clown. After dining on chicken nuggets, lil' smokies, cheetos and fruit salad we wrapped up the party with presents and a cupcake cake. I for one am going to change things up a bit next year. I am going to have the cake at the beginning of the party instead of the end. Cienna was bouncing off the walls for the rest of the day and I am pretty sure she would have crashed and burned if I had fueled her with sugar at the start of the party!


The Birthday Girl


The Kiddos Feeling Huggs the Clown Out


It Took Lots of Tries (And I Think A Little Spit) To Get the Candles Out

I used the party as an excuse to get out my hot glue gun and put some of the gems that Tony got from a hauling job to good use. Cienna got a princess party hat and all of the guests received custom headbands. I am no longer responding to Alexis anymore. You can call me Martha Stewart (as long as it only involves using a glue gun.)



So another birthday has come and gone. Today she is 4. Tomorrow, 14. And by next Saturday she is going to be my age. It sure does fly. But we are loving every moment with our growing gal!

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Resolutions



At the beginning of each new year I can't help but wonder what the next 365 days have in store for me and my family. In 2010 we experienced many wonderful things:
-Cienna starting pre-school
-Our 1st time in Cancun, Mexico
-A New (Yet Unrevealed) Business Partnership
-My Mom Getting Hired In A Full Time Teaching Position
-Acquiring A New Piece Of Property
-Another Fun Trip To Disneyland

And we experienced some challenges:
-Our Car Being Stolen
-Tony Being Injured By A Piece Of Hydraulic Equipment
-AJ Breaking His Leg
-My Gallbladder Being Removed

All in all, I would say that the good outweighed the bad once again. We are looking forward to many good things in 2011. To start, Tony's parents are moving to New Mexico in just 2 weeks! This is something that we have been praying for for years and we are excited to have some of our immediate family close by. Now we just need to work on the rest of them! We have a trip to Las Vegas planned in March, Cabo San Lucas in June, and some renovations to our cabin that should start taking place this month. Very exciting times.

I only made 2 resolutions this year....one of which I have already broken but I have not given up. My 1st resolution was to finally stop swearing like a sailor. I know that many of you will miss this part of Alexis, but it is a necessary change. I am sure that Cienna's use of "flippin" is going to evolve into "f*ckin" pretty soon so this is of utmost importance. However, this is also the resolution that I have already broken. Old habits do die hard. But I am going to keep trying.
My 2nd resolution is to lose 15lbs by the end of the year and keep it off! After the gallbladder incident I lost almost 30lbs from my pre-pregnancy weight and of course I loved it! However, I have slowly gained back about 15 of those pounds and I would like to lose them once again. For good. Again, another work in progress...but I am determined to make some changes in 2011.

Lately I have struggled with coping with everyday stress. I realize that many things that stress me out I bring on myself. And I also realize that many things that I stress about are not life threatening things. I guess that sometimes I lose focus on what is really important in life. I need to not sweat the small stuff. All in all life is really good! (Now if I could just keep repeating that to myself over and over and over and over again!)

I wish everyone a happy, healthy and prosperous 2011. We all deserve the best in life and I just want to be there to celebrate with you all!